Is divorce making you feel isolated and confused?

Unsure of the next step?

Do you need to speak to a friend who has been there and has already travelled the rocky road you are about to enter?

I invite you to download the first chapter of my book for free. I wrote it with you in mind and hope it will help you.

I will help you navigate divorce with clarity, and create the life you deserve with confidence

Is divorce making you feel isolated and confused?

Unsure of the next step?

Do you need to speak to a friend who has already been there and already travelled the rocky road you are about to enter?

I invite you to download the first chapter of my book for free. I wrote it with you in mind and hope it will help you 

Oscar - certified divorce coach
Divorce Coaching

Have you heard of the phrase “turning over a new leaf”? It may sound easy, but divorce is everything but easy. Even simple split-ups are complicated – what to say of high conflict separations. 

And speaking to high conflict, are you feeling:

  • Isolated?
  • Confused?
  • Disoriented?
  • Unsure what to do next?
  • Scared of the legal process?
  • Stressed?

Divorce is like moving to a different planet where the laws of physics no longer apply; up means down, left is right, and down is up. Nothing seems to make sense. 

I will work with you to make sense of this new world, create a personalized roadmap for your journey, help you look to the future and move forward.

To learn more about my experience click button below.

Divorce coaching


Don’t let divorce wreck your whole life; prepare, adapt, and conquer with this helpful guide

Divorce is often one of the most emotionally taxing periods in a person’s life. To make matters worse, this emotionally-charged time accompanies intense legal battles, astronomical costs, and new struggles most people don’t see coming. That’s where The Good, The Bad, and The Divorce comes in.


On this divorce journey, your lawyer will be like the engine that will make sure you keep powering right through. Still, you must always remain steering the wheel on the driver’s seat, keeping your own personal power and never relinquishing it to anybody. Your decisions are yours alone; only you can decide when to stop, go faster, and when to turn. A lawyer will not have the time to coach you around critical aspects of your journey. 

I will help you ask the questions most people in divorce fail to ask and seek the answers to. It is your journey, and you need to make sure you do an excellent job.

The challenge for the road ahead is simple: “You don’t know what you don’t know.”   As a coach/co-pilot, I help you get the roadmap you need.

It’s a fact, divorce is a very stressful time that puts the nervous system on high alert, and makes the adrenaline flow faster as we go through the dramatic roller coaster, not knowing what to expect next; our ability to think clearly dramatically decreases, at a time when we need to make the most critical decisions which will have an impact on the rest of our life.  It’s like driving up a steep incline on 3 cylinders, continually misfiring.

As a divorce coach, I am your thinking partner who helps you create a roadmap for your present moment situation and future plans, helping you arrive at decisions with clarity and assist you to move forward with confidence

Divorce is typically an extremely lonely journey, even divorcing parents with a large circle of friends and family find themselves alone. You will soon find out that asking advice from those close to you will be quick to tell you how to fix it, and go into rescue mode; which typically means breaking your personal boundaries and diminishing your ability to dig into your own inner resources and creativity to work through the process. Another problem is that those close to you will naturally start picking sides and making it very difficult to confide in them.

As a divorce coach and non-judgemental, advocate – who is extremely familiar with all aspects of divorce; I will walk down the journey as your thinking friend – helping you make decisions with clarity and confidence.

I have already travelled the journey you are about to embark on; I have spoken to other divorcees, read books on the subject, and found it is pretty common for people in divorce to get advice from their inner circle. The problem is family is too emotionally invested and may tell you to “get an aggressive lawyer”; friends may be so disconnected from your situation that they may say “fix your marriage,” but none can tell you how to go about either choice. Each option represents a road of several miles that requires lots of navigational help. 

Which advice is correct, and how do you decide? As it turns out, as well-meaning they all are, frequently, friends and family are not the right groups to approach for divorce matters.

As you make this left turn into the unknown road called divorce, you will find there are several paths to get to the other end. The journey ahead will be cold, cloudy, foggy and rainy; you simply do not want to stop to admire the non-beauty of the landscape, not at all. You want to cross it in the shortest amount of time possible with the least number of accidents. 

As a divorce coach, I will help you avoid typical divorce mistakes and accidents that may easily translate into thousands or tens of thousands of dollars and unnecessary pain and suffering. I committed those same accidents and understood how to avoid them after working with several lawyers and reading untold material on divorce. 

Divorce is rarely an overnight thing; it happens slowly over a period of time. Hardly anyone wakes up one morning and says to themselves, “this is a wonderful day to get divorced.” I have been there and have valuable experience with the “ambivalent” zone, that space where one has trouble deciding what to do. The question at this stage is, “should I continue the known road or make a left turn into Divorce trail?” 

I can help you sort things out to make the best decision.

Never! As a coach, I do not tell you what to do. Quite the opposite, I keep reminding you that it is your life, and you should not surrender your personal power to anyone. I am deeply aware that your mind is in a state of confusion, so I simply help you sort things through to have a much better view of the landscape in front of you and how to best navigate. Again, the biggest challenge facing you is that “you don’t know what you don’t know.” I will help you ask the questions you must seek answers to.

No, in the last two years, there has been a dramatic shift in the delivery of services; now, more than ever before, we are meeting remotely through video conference. However, the choice of meeting in person is always available.

I authored a book called The Good, The Bad and The Divorce; it is a fantastic resource to get started on your journey; it will help you understand the roadmap for the work ahead of you and start preparing.  It is selling through Amazon, Kindle and Apple Books.  The first few pages of my book are free to download from this website.

Download the initial fifteen pages of my book The Good The Bad and The Divorce for free.

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