divorce coaching
High-conflict or mediated - every divorce is a strategic minefield.
I provide the roadmap to navigate both.
CHAOS IS EXPENSIVE - A ROADMAP IS AN INVESTMENT
A divorce coach helps you get organized, filter emotional communication, and streamline your case - saving you dozens of billable legal hours before you ever step into mediation or court.
Meet Your Strategist: Oscar Chavarria
I didn't learn how to handle narcissistic litigation from a weekend seminar. I survived a grueling 5-year high-conflict divorce, navigated the Supreme Court as a self-represented litigant, retained and vetted several lawyers, and literally wrote the book on getting out with your assets and sanity intact.
As a CDC Certified Divorce Transition Coach®, I serve as your tactical co-pilot— helping you anticipate legal landmines, document behavior effectively, and make decisive moves before you spend another dollar on attorney billables.
Divorcing a Narcissist Is Not Just a Legal Battle.
It’s a Psychological War.
Your lawyer charges $500+/hour and is not trained
to handle emotional landmines or narcissistic manipulation.
I bridge the gap between legal strategy and real-world execution
If you are ready to execute, let’s get to work
No fluff, just the way out with your integrity intact.
The only investment in your divorce that pays for itself
Let’s be honest—no one dreams of watching divorce content… but here you are, and I am glad you made it. In this surprisingly light-hearted and genuinely eye-opening conversation, I tackle divorce without the drama, legal jargon, or emotional landmines. Just two people talking candidly about what really happens when love hits the legal system.
You’ll be shocked at how far a little strategy can go
With the right guidance, you can save tens of thousands, avoid chaos, and take control of your divorce
There’s a Wide, Lonely Gap Between Emotional Support and Legal Advice.
That's Where Transformation Happens
I help you bridge the chaos
The smartest move you'll make before you call your lawyer.
Divorce Support to help you overcome messy divorces and regain control
The truth is, support for anyone navigating a messy divorce is practically nonexistent.
On top of this lack of help, you’re almost guaranteed to receive poor advice that makes an already difficult situation even worse.
We live in a time when it is more insulting to call a bad actor a narcissist than to recognize the harm they inflict.
My company is dedicated to providing strategic divorce guidance, particularly those navigating high-conflict divorces involving narcissistic partners. I understand the unique challenges people face in these situations—whether it’s emotional manipulation, financial strain, or the overwhelming complexity of the legal process.
My mission is to empower you with the tools, strategies, and support you need to regain control of your life. I take a personalized approach, serving as an advocate, sounding board, and trusted advisor to help you make informed decisions, avoid costly mistakes, and protect your rights.
With a focus on saving time, money, and unnecessary emotional pain, I offer guidance that bridges the gap between legal advice and emotional support. At the heart of my work is a commitment to helping individuals emerge from divorce with confidence, clarity, and a strong foundation to rebuild their future.
Even amicable divorces are hard, but divorcing a narcissist is a whole other level of tough
Divorcing a narcissist requires far more than legal paperwork.
It demands nothing less than complete mastery of
The Art of Divorce
What Others Say
You helped me a lot. If you are about to go through a divorce, he has some good insight to help you make some good early decisions. A very good communicator also.
- Larry L.
I read Oscar's book, the Good, The Bad, The Divorce. A great and easy read that gives you all the pitfalls to watch out for and the basic steps to take in making your way through the court system
- David Z
Thank you a lot, this was very helpful. I really recommend to anyone who is looking for help
- Alan
Ryan H. Cunningham
No fluff, direct clear guidelines for divorce regardless of where you find yourself in the process
Reviewed in the United States on November 15, 2024
Verified Purchase
I picked this book up after I began divorce coaching with Oscar. It served as our "textbook" of sorts throughout our sessions together.
It complemented our sessions well and on its own merit, is an excellent eye-opening no fluff guide to getting through a divorce with the best chances of success (or perhaps the least damage) [...]
I highly recommend this book especially [...]
And if you are in the process, I HIGHLY encourage you to get a divorce coach throughout the divorce process.
Your lawyer is NOT a coach and is not your friend, guide, or anything else [....]
Dia
I want to convey my profound gratitude for the invaluable assistance and encouragement Oscar provided me during the most trying period of my life. His expertise and capabilities shone through every step of the transition.
I strongly recommend engaging a divorce mentor like Oscar, regardless of your location in my case, Texas [...]
We require a seasoned guide and confidant like Oscar to depend on and focus on the road ahead. It is not solely about legal counsel but also about the emotional and psychological strain accompanying divorce.
Oscar's transparency and trustworthiness provided me with a sense of security. If you are presently grappling with the hurdles of divorce and feeling inundated, I implore you to seek Oscar's support.
He will steer you through the process with compassion and empathy. Thank you, Oscar, for all your assistance.
Ben Pingel
Oscar has been an incredible support and resource for me during one of the most challenging times in my life.
Navigating my divorce felt overwhelming, confusing, and isolating, but Oscar’s guidance has been truly life-changing.
His expertise in understanding narcissism and teaching me how to handle it has given me the clarity and confidence I needed to move forward.
After our first session, I cried for a half hour because I was so relieved to finally understand what was happening.
For the first time in a long time, I felt a sense of hope.
Thanks to Oscar, I feel empowered and equipped with the tools to work through difficult situations. He is kind, empathetic, and truly listens, which has made all the difference in my journey.
I cannot recommend Oscar enough to anyone who is navigating a high-conflict divorce or seeking clarity and empowerment in the process. Thank you, Oscar, for helping me regain control and hope for my future!
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MY Rock-Solid 100% Money-Back Guarantee
When you join my divorce transition program, you’ll always be covered by my money-back guarantee. In the extremely unlikely event that I can’t help you see a difference within the first fourteen days, I'll refund every cent you’ve invested.
